1. Spend time with them doing things they enjoy. 

2. Be safe. Be gentle and kind.

3. Don’t be angry. 

4. Protect from evil.

5. Confess my sin and repent.

6. Listen to them. 

7. Do something special with them occasionally. 

8. Tell them you love them.

9. Hug them and kiss them.

10. Give them a gift occasionally. Just because. 

11. Serve them. Do a task for them that helps them. 

12. Prioritize them. Help them see they are important to me